dude, u all just the same

So this guy, professes to love me, will never hurt me, will never disappoint me, that he will be different from the others. Blah, blah, blah. Does he really think I havent heard it before? Does he? I just let him go on stating the obvious. Does he think I will fall for the trailer? Does he know how many of those promises i have heard? Trust me, I know what Im talking about. I have 32years of experience, oh well minus 13years. You got it, yes, I started like really dating at 13, if I remember well.

So back to this dude: thinks he can impress me by coming to me bearing gifts. Ofcourse, I love presents. Who doesnt? I totaly adore them, but they are just that, 'presents'. So he musnt think he can win my heart that way. I say this because, in my research,most guys think equate love to money. Look, Im not trying to be unreal. Showering of gifts, can buy you companionship, but to win the heart, is complex.

The point Im trying to make is this dude mustn't think that he can win my heart that way. Some advice for him: try listening to me,when I'm talking, please dont do the talking. why should we compete. Stop blowing up my telephone (lol). Give me space to breathe. Let me process things. Do ome research dude, ' I aint your regular girl'.

inspired

im totally inspired to write about the obvious, not so obvious things in life. take for instance, friends. We all claim to have so many, but I think we dont know the definition of 'friend.' Hey, dont look at me, I dont know either. Its tricky really. If anyone should ask me right now, i would probably have an endless list of people I call friends. I have said this before, im sure of it, I have sais that if im still walking on egg shells around you, then, you are not my friend, neither am I yours.

I expect honesty, truth in friends. I dont need u to tread carefuly around me. We should be past that. I dont have to like or agree with everything u say or do. I like to think i give as much as i expect. If im not honest & truthful with u then we havent arrived at my highest level of friendship.
 
So, instead of coming up with a definition of friendship, lets just go with what we have. Only this time we will have different levels of friendship. Stay tuned as we explore these levels of friendship.